Friday 19 December 2014

INTERRACIAL DATING AND LOVE



Interracial dating historically has been considered taboo. But as time passed by, increasingly people came to understand and accept relationships of people from different races. Although there's still a few who are uncomfortable about the idea of interracial dating, most people in the society nowadays are open-minded.

You cannot control what your heart tells you. In case you fell in love with anyone from a different culture and racial background, you may struggle to fight for your love because of other people’s reactions. However, there are lots of interracial relationships that show to last longer than those who have had same-race relationships. This may be because they felt a stronger bond of affection between them and the trials that they went through made them love each other more, in lieu of breaking them apart. They grow together in a strong foundation of real love and long lasting relationship.

There are some challenges that face interracial dating because of cultural differences between interracial couples. There are some countries that still have these societal pressures and prejudices about it. In addition, a number of the interracial couples’ relatives might oppose the union because they might think that it is unsuitable for their families, and or societies; so to speak. They become worried about what other people might think about their sons or daughters relationships with people of different background and color.

The cultural differences between the couples are of the most difficult of all challenges because each has to adjust to the other’s cultural upbringing. While establishing their own relatives, the query lingers about how they would raise their babies. What cultural background they ought to be exposed to and other things for that matter. In order to resolve this, they ought to have a serious exchange of ideas for raising their babies. The best thing to do is mix in all the lovely things about each culture but leave out anything negative about it.

Interracial dating might have its difficulties and trials, however, there are plenty of couples who are successfully and happily married. They outgrow and withstand all the trials they face in the coursework of their first days of dating up to the time they establish a happy home. They both have benefit of learning new things about another’s culture, both the lovely and the bad attributes of each culture.










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