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GIVING LOVE, GETTING LOVE, GIVING TO GET

Love. We need it from the moment we are born to thrive. We might survive but we do not thrive without abundant love. No wonder we work so hard to get it. No wonder we try to be perfect and do everything right to have control over getting love. No wonder we get anxious, angry or depressed when we do not get the love we need. No wonder we use numerous substance and process addictions to numb the pain when we feel alone and unloved: True or False?

When we were little, our parents or other caregivers needed to be our source of love. We were too young to access the love we needed by ourselves. Our parents were like God they were our source of life and love.

As we grew older, we were supposed to shift our focus from getting love from our parents to receiving the love that is God. Yet, because most of our parents didn’t know how to do this for themselves, many of us never learned to access the love that is infinite and always available to us.

As adults most people are stuck in trying to get love and avoid pain.

Do you try to get love by giving yourself up to others, hoping they will give you the love you need? Are you giving to get?

Do you try to get others to love you through intimidation and guilt? Do you get angry, manipulative, or blaming to try to get others to give themselves up and give you what you want?

Do you shut down and numb out with food, alcohol, drugs, TV, gambling, sex, work, and so on, to avoid the pain of loneliness and aloneness? Do you use addictions to avoid the pain of not feeling loved?

Are you trying to make people, substances, things or activities your source of love?

There is only one true Source of love. The Source of love is the universe we live in. The Source of love is whatever is your concept of God/Spirit. God is Love, and that love is always around us and within us, but you will feel it only when your heart is open to learning about loving yourself.

As long as you are trying to get love from others and avoid pain with your addictions, your heart is closed and you cannot feel the love that is always here for you. Only when you shift your attention from getting love and avoiding pain, to loving yourself and sharing your love with others, will you stop feeling so empty, alone and lonely. Only when you stop making people, things, activities and substances your source and turn to Spirit as your Source will you feel the fullness of love within.

The key to this shift is to stop making others and addictions responsible for your feelings and decide to take full, 100% responsibility for your own feelings of joy and wellbeing. When your intent shifts to learning about taking loving action for yourself, you will learn how to fill yourself with love from your Source and share that love with others.

Sharing love is totally different from giving to get love. Sharing love comes from a full place within, a place that does not need anything back from another person. When we learn to take loving action in our own behalf, we get so filled with love that it just overflows. When this is the case, we receive great joy in sharing our love. We no longer try to be the source of love for others, nor do we make others our source of love.

Today, focus on opening to learning about what is in your highest good. Ask the question throughout the day:  What is in my highest good right now? As answers pop into your mind, take the loving action on your own behalf. Then notice how peaceful and fulfilled you’ll feel, and how good it feels to share your love and joy with others.

Enjoy!

LOVE MATURE AND IMMATURE LOVE

Love has many facets. Love is still a mystery and every lover has his/her own story about love. What is mature love and what type is immature. Let us find out.

In immature love it is said that the person who falls in love has low self-respect. He/she has little self-confidence and finds a lover to see all the qualities that he/she misses in themselves. The person does not love himself/herself, but loves the partner with great fervor. This is called immature love.

Mature love – If a person has very high self-respect and great self-confidence, he/she is supposed to be in mature love. This is called mature love because it is expected that such persons know what they are doing? They know why they love a particular person and what they expect from the love.

In my opinion both these kids of love may fail equally badly or survive against all the odds, because while talking of love, we have to consider the partner also. I may be a very self respecting person and may have fallen in love after lot of deliberation. That does not matter to my partner who may react in different fashion as times passes. My success or failure does not depend only on me, but also my partner.

Love defies all analysis. Why two persons fall in attraction and become inseparable is a mystery. Very contrasting personalities may love each other for all the life and very similar partner may fall out of love in a short time. It is the very nature of love that makes it a subject of so much investigation .

MAKE LASTING LOVE A REALITY

Many people are able to get into relationships. And many are able to attract partners who are suitable for them, physically and mentally. But for many people, their relationships do not last much more than 3 months! This is a shocking truth of the dating world. Why does this happen? Why can’t we make it last? I’ll give you three reasons:

1. Treating a Relationship as a Transaction

You cannot be calculative when it comes to love. Counting who did what for whom leads to the death of generosity. Theoretically speaking, there’s a hidden universal law guiding human relations, which is, “If you stop giving, you stop getting.” And if that’s the way the law is, them we must not stop giving or else the relationship will die. So if you are calculative, you will count to a point where you will say, “Yep, that’s enough. I’ve given my fair share. Now it’s your turn.” But your partner may not feel it’s their turn yet. So don’t calculate. Keep giving generously and you partner will return your love when the time is right.

2. Not Being Patient or Sensitive Enough

Relationships are delicate because human emotions are delicate. You can bring the strongest relationship to its knees with a single quarrel. You don’t even need to do it in person; over the telephone will do. You can end a good relationship with words that hurt, no meeting needed. So if you treasure your relationship, never blow your top. Your partner deserves your best behaviour. And the more love you invest in them, the more they will love you for it.

3. Idealistic Demands

Some people are more idealistic than others. They have a vision in their minds of how they want their ideal partner to be – and they will not compromise. Usually in life, the partners we end up with do not meet our original criteria. Maybe she doesn’t have the perfect figure or maybe he’s not exactly Prince Charming. But in the end we still choose this person. Why so? It’s because our criteria have changed. By living long enough, you see different kinds of people. And you will start editing your criteria of what you want in a partner, circling those qualities which are important, and mentally scratching out those which are not. So if a person has a list of rigid, uncompromising qualities that they follow to the dot, they might just kick out the partner that was right for them.

If it were so easy to make a relationship last, our divorce rates would be lower. Even if people do not fall into the three traps listed above, there are other problems such as the possibility of meeting someone more attractive (high chance). What should you do in such a case? Here’s a principle to guide you:

“A great love relationship is not something you find, but something you build and commit yourself to.”

There are tons of beautiful people in the world and many who are physically more attractive than your partner. To some people, the grass is always greener on the other side. So what do they do? They hop over to the neighbour’s lawn! But then the lawn doesn’t seem so green anymore because they see the weeds of the person’s personality. But it looks like there’s a greener lawn next door, so they hop again! They do their partner hopping, dating and exchanging in search of the greenest lawn, but they’ll never find it because a beautiful relationship, like a beautiful garden, must be tended to and cared for. You can have ‘happily forever after’ with the partner you choose, but you must commit yourself to it. Without commitment, nothing lasts.

To sustain love, two people have to choose each other. If either partner defaults or is unsure, the whole relationship falls apart. It doesn’t matter how much you love the other person, if they do not return your love. This reminds me of those Chinese drama serials where they are fond of saying, “Ai Qing Shi Bu Neng Mian Qiang De” – translated it means ‘you can’t force love’. And this will be the time when the male suitor will grip his head and cry, “Why! Why?!!” Then he has no alternative, but to drown his sorrows in drink, and maybe get knocked down by a truck. Then the girl will visit him in hospital, where with his dying breath he whispers his last words of undying love… then he dies.

An Uncommitted Partner

Sometimes you might find that although you are ready to commit, your partner doesn’t want to settle. They may be on the lookout for the ideal person who can fulfill their whims and fantasies… some idealistic vision of what a lover should be. Many people believe that they can hold on to their partner and make them stay. But this isn’t true. If your partner wants to go, they will. A lover is not an inanimate object – you can’t ‘hold on’ to them – they are human beings with free will and dreams and ideals of their own. What you can do is realize that each person seeks their own happiness. Sometimes it may be with you, at other times it may not. And if you still care for this person, the best you can do is allow them to follow their dreams. Gracefully step aside and wish them well. The right partner will come along for you one day.

The more you love a person; the more you care about him or her, the greater the feeling of being stabbed in the heart when they betray or cheat your love. Although the normal reaction to being dumped is to go ballistic and tell your lover what a piece of trash they are, your heart feels like a knife has sliced through it. This heart-pain is there because buried under your anger, there is love.

When our partner betrays our love, there are two immediate feelings – the part that feels cheated, and the part that still cares. On one hand we hate them for hurting us, and we want to hurt them back. On the other hand, we still have feelings for them, so just the thought of breaking up is hurting our soul. So what you need to realize is the deep stabbing pain you feel in your heart is not the pain of rejection, but the pain of trying to hate someone you love. Only when you can admit that you still care, and stop trying to hate them, the two parts dissolve and become one whole. The pain disappears.

If you want to find an ideal partner, you first have to BE an ideal partner. Give your partner first-class treatment – be infinitely patient, loving, and giving. This doesn’t mean you do not settle differences, but that you do it in a calm and gentle manner. Don’t be calculative about giving. Give with all your heart and trust that your partner appreciates the love you give. They will return it to you when you least expect it. Realize that some of your demands are idealistic and unnecessary, drop them or change them. And finally, strive to become the best you can be in mind, body, and spirit; socially, financially, and emotionally because the better you become as a person, the better a partner you will attract. 

Good luck and may you build the love life of your dreams.

TRUE LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT CAN HAPPEN

True love is something that can happen no matter the circumstances of the situation. Whether you are a poor beggar boy chasing after the heart of a princess, a chivalrous and courageous Knight immensely in love with the queen that you’ve vowed protection to, or whether your families are hated enemies of one another, it is possible for love to take root and blossom. It also could be the simple attraction to what we cannot have, the forbidden. Regardless of the reason, love of these kinds has spawned off wonderful and inspirational stories. Stories about such couples as Aladdin, Sir Lancelot, Romeo and their lovely ladies have all helped to keep the dream alive. It is the dream that love, although forbidden, or seemly impossible, with great sacrifice is achievable.

“I can show you the world shining, shimmering, splendid. Tell me princess, when was the last time you let your heart decide?” Aladdin and Jasmine will forever be remembered by their magical carpet ride across the night sky, through the clouds, and over the lighted desert city of Agrabah. This Middle-Eastern based romance is only a cartoon, but it does illustrate clearly the aspect of forbidden love. Aladdin, a poor beggar boy from the streets of Agrabah, wished to prove to everyone that he was much more than what they thought he was, a “street rat.” One day, he helped a young girl in the market place and he began to fall in love with her, not realizing her true identity in the beginning. The young girl in actuality is none other than the princess of his kingdom, Princess Jasmine, and fortunately for him she returned his love. Although the princess could only wed a royal suitor, Aladdin believed that someday he would be able to have his princess. As luck would have it, a mysterious old man took him to the incredible Cave of Wonders, in search of a magical lamp. Aladdin used this lamp to free the genie inside. With the help of the genie, Aladdin was able to save his kingdom from impending doom. This act off goodness convinced the Sultan that Aladdin was a worthy suitor for his daughter Jasmine.

King, Queens, and Knights in shining armor are all that a great epic romance needs to be successful. One such story is that of Sir Lancelot and his love affair with the very queen he swore protection to, Queen Guinevere. Guinevere was the beloved queen of King Arthur, the founder of Camelot. As the champion of King Arthur and Queen Guinevere and premiere Knight of Arthur’s court, Lancelot was an unstoppable warrior. He almost never met defeat and quickly defeated all comers in or out of armor and regardless of the number of his foes. However, he was defeated, but only by the power of love. He was unable to control his love for the queen of Camelot and she returned his love, making it harder for either of them to deny it. They felt this love so strongly for each other they were willing to destroy all that King Arthur had worked for during his entire life, just so they could be together. Lancelot was Arthur’s best friend and most trusted knight, and Guinevere was his wife and his queen, yet they continued their relationship together. Camelot fell, as they knew it would, and feeling the guilt of it, Guinevere and Lancelot decided they must separate. Lancelot became a monk and lived as a penitent until his death, and Guinevere did nearly the same. She went to a nunnery spending the rest of her life in repentance and serving God, hoping for forgiveness for what she and Lancelot had done. An unfortunate end to such a romance, but a tragedy such as this immortalizes the tale for all of history and the days that precede it.

“Oh Romeo, Romeo. Wherefore art thou Romeo? Deny thy father and refuse thy name or if thou wilt not, be but sworn my love and I’ll no longer be a Capulet. `Tis only thy name that is my enemy. A rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” Romeo Montague and Juliet Capulet must be the most famous romantic couple of all time. Their love was forbidden by social status. Their families did more than not approve of their love for each other; the Montagues and the Capulets were archenemies. Even though centuries of hate ran through their blood, the love of their hearts cleansed the hatred with every beat. It is sad their lives would not last as long as their love. Romeo, hearing that Juliet was dead, went to see for himself and he found it to be true. He soon killed himself beside her body, not wanting to live another moment on this earth without his beloved Juliet. After he died Juliet awoke from her induced comatose-like sleep to find Romeo committed suicide because he thought she was really dead. Juliet, overwhelmed with remorse for causing the death of her lover, killed herself as well. Both Romeo and Juliet choose not to live life without the other.

These tales are only a few examples of forbidden love. It is not that clear whether any of these stories are fiction or non-fiction, but one thing is for certain, many people experience forbidden love like this. Love finds a way and with that thought, cannot be erased by laws or rules. It is the fabric that never fades, no matter how often it is washed in the waters of grief. Love is the power that motivates hope, and hope is what makes us live today as if tomorrow were yesterday. Aladdin and Jasmine, Sir Lancelot and Lady Guinevere, and Romeo and Juliet all saw this and chased their love and proved that even the most forbidden of loves is possible as long as they are willing sacrifice.

LOVE-BALANCE EMOTIONS AND INTELLIGENCE

Love is euphoric. Love is enchanting. Love is heavenly. Love is captivating. And Love is something no one can describe. Love has to be felt, it cannot be explained. One cannot fall in love by planning; one just falls in love without realizing. That is love. And love also takes intelligence away like nothing can. In love, the most intelligent person may act foolishly, because love overwhelms.

What if you fall in romantic love? It is the beginning of your love and you have no thoughts in your mind except those of your darling. You are dreaming of making a home with her/him and living happily ever after. You are planning, discussing and dreaming. You are as much away from the reality of life as much as day is away from night. You get married. Your friends gather. Your family gathers. There is celebration. The couple looks great. They look to be in so much love with each other. You feel like the luckiest person on the earth. And then you announce divorce after a year. Why?

You never allowed your intelligence any role in your decision to marry. You never thought of what marriage means. You never faced the reality of staying together. If she is north, you are south, and if he loves literature, you love outdoors. Both of you knew about the differences, but both of you ignored them. You never gave attention to them. And some one pointed out the differences and asks you to rethink; he/she was out of your list of friends. But the final outcome was shattering. No divorce ever gives peace and fulfillment.

Please fall in love. Please experience the high of love, real passionate love. And please ask your intelligence few questions before deciding to spend life together. Are we suitable for each other? Are our habits similar? Will we give comfort to each other? Are our expectations real and will they get fulfilled? Are we fit to marry each other? Will our love last? Let intelligence play a role along with your love and then decide. You will never have to announce divorce. You will live happily together forever, because you have made a conscious decision after finding out everything.

What's Love?!: INTERRACIAL DATING AND LOVE

What's Love?!: INTERRACIAL DATING AND LOVE: Interracial dating historically has been considered taboo. But as time passed by, increasingly people came to understand and accept relat...

INTERRACIAL DATING AND LOVE

Interracial dating historically has been considered taboo. But as time passed by, increasingly people came to understand and accept relationships of people from different races. Although there's still a few who are uncomfortable about the idea of interracial dating, most people in the society nowadays are open-minded.

You cannot control what your heart tells you. In case you fell in love with anyone from a different culture and racial background, you may struggle to fight for your love because of other people’s reactions. However, there are lots of interracial relationships that show to last longer than those who have had same-race relationships. This may be because they felt a stronger bond of affection between them and the trials that they went through made them love each other more, in lieu of breaking them apart. They grow together in a strong foundation of real love and long lasting relationship.

There are some challenges that face interracial dating because of cultural differences between interracial couples. There are some countries that still have these societal pressures and prejudices about it. In addition, a number of the interracial couples’ relatives might oppose the union because they might think that it is unsuitable for their families, and or societies; so to speak. They become worried about what other people might think about their sons or daughters relationships with people of different background and color.

The cultural differences between the couples are of the most difficult of all challenges because each has to adjust to the other’s cultural upbringing. While establishing their own relatives, the query lingers about how they would raise their babies. What cultural background they ought to be exposed to and other things for that matter. In order to resolve this, they ought to have a serious exchange of ideas for raising their babies. The best thing to do is mix in all the lovely things about each culture but leave out anything negative about it.

Interracial dating might have its difficulties and trials, however, there are plenty of couples who are successfully and happily married. They outgrow and withstand all the trials they face in the coursework of their first days of dating up to the time they establish a happy home. They both have benefit of learning new things about another’s culture, both the lovely and the bad attributes of each culture.

What's Love?!: SECRETS OF DISCOVERING YOUR PASSION AT WORK

What's Love?!: SECRETS OF DISCOVERING YOUR PASSION AT WORK: Discovering your passion at work is the key thing to ensure lifelong happiness, contentment and good health. When you love what you do, it ...

SECRETS OF DISCOVERING YOUR PASSION AT WORK

Discovering your passion at work is the key thing to ensure lifelong happiness, contentment and good health. When you love what you do, it matters much less how much money you have could have in the bank. You look ahead each day that comes with zest and excitement. You feel your work and everything else in life is full of adventure, opportunities and satisfaction. You are at your best well being, you sleep well, and you feel rejuvenated and inspired.

Russian writer Fyodor  Dostoyevsky had similar opinions on this effect on a working individual. While he was in prison for expressing negative views against the authorities, he was moved by the distress of prisoners who had been tasked to transfer a huge pile of sand all day. He had observed that this group of prisoners was the one who tried to escape through the electrified barbed-wire fence or committed suicide. The other group of prisoners on the other hand was tasked to construct a railroad. They appeared to be happier and more satisfied, in fact he had heard them singing while at work.

To find at work, you must be in the right job where you are given the freedom to become a better and wiser person than you are at the present.
And to find the right job, you must be honest with your feelings and thoughts. You have to know the things that matter to you and that will really make you happy and content. Take time to incorporate your thoughts and feelings, your sense of individuality, your weaknesses, strengths, the thing that annoy you, excites you, and what you do effortlessly and naturally. Knowing what you want and having the courage to go for it helps your thoughts and feelings accomplish your objective.

It’s essential to also make sure that the work you have provides for your needs. Many people quit their jobs because they feel unappreciated, too busy and drained, unchallenged, and more. It is important for you to your needs as it is similar to having the right nutrients in your diet. Fine-tuning your personal needs with the rewards of work gives you security and contentment. Thus, making you more inspired and motivated.

A work with passion is a piece that expresses love. This love is not the romantic love but the love that is conduit to expressing goodwill to others and the community and yet you get paid at the same time. When your work is one that spreads the love to others, you feel prouder of yourself. To find passion at work, you’ll be able to re-examine your roles and the way it contributes for greater work. Then, remind yourself of these thoughts every now and then.

Some fears are born from abuses and mistreatment we have acquired from our parents, teachers, former employers, co-workers and other people. These fears oftentimes restrict us to become completely happy and passionate about our work. Lots of people really feel empty as a result of that they are guilty of the past. They feel there is no such thing as a possibility of finding the work they love and thus, they only give half of their hearts to it. Discovering your passion at work also means letting go of the monsters of the past. When you liberate yourself from negative thoughts out of unpleasant past experiences, you will become more open to experiences that will transform you to a more mature individual – someone that is willing to accept duty of changing your life through your own hands and cooperate with positive people to achieve mutually desirable goals.

NOW THIS LOVE!

Yes, what is love? Everybody talks about “love” in everyday conversation. Animals show it. Birds of the air sing beautiful songs of love and tranquility. There are movies, drama, songs and books out there based on love, but the six four million dollar question is: Do we really know, “What’s love?!”

Bellow are some Greek definitions of love:

            

Eros:

       This is the romantic love of passion, of physical longing, deep intensity, and  

        intimacy. It is often the initial love that attracts a couple. Here, the love is          

    

         attracted to what it finds desirable, or beautiful and this love often knows                                

         knows no limits and searches without satisfaction through many objects of    

         desires.

Philos:

        This is love that is characterized by sharing, companionship and shared        

         values. This love exemplifies friendship-based and brotherly love. It is more

         comprehensive and less self-seeking than eros.

Storge:

        This refers to family love between parent and child, or between two incredibly    

        close people. It is instinctive, and does not need to be requited.

Agape:

        This is considered purest, most comprehensive and most mysterious form of

         love. It is unconditional love. Agape dissolves our separateness from God,

         others, and ourselves, instead of seeking security and consolation, or seeking  

         to be loved. We are love. Agape is the love of altruism, of giving without

         asking anything in return.

It is well illustrated in a famous Bible verse in 1 Corinthians 13, depicting other qualities of love as:

Though I speak with tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophesy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give all my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.

Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never fails. But whether there are prophesies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part. But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is imperfect will be done away.

When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is LOVE.

So how do we attract love into our lives? We get love by giving love, for as we give, so do we receive. Life is like a mirror and will reflect back to us what we put out. Want more in your life? Then I invite you to demonstrate to a friend or family member real AGAPE love. Call someone up for no other reason than to tell them you love them.

EXPRESS YOUR LOVE WITH WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS GIFTS

Christmas is about aloft us, and there is abundant action and amore in the air as the division of administration and allowance giving draws nearer admitting the December chill. Christmas decorations and beam brighten up your home and leaves anybody activity blithe and happy.

During the Christmas division, the apple is adorned with abounding Christmas imageries, such as that of Santa, busy Christmas trees, appealing Christmas ornaments, slow-burning candles, ancestors gatherings and carol singing – all brighten up your affection and address admitting the snow and the cold outside.

But what adds to the anniversary and joy of Christmas is artlessly the act of affectionate giving and administration that brings out the added compassionate, added admiring ancillary of anniversary and every person. It is this attitude of giving Christmas ability that embodies the accurate spirit of Christmas, that is, the spirit of universal love and compassion for all.

Everybody wants to affect his or her baby ones with an admirable allowance for Christmas. But what absolutely is the magic factor that makes a Christmas present so allusive and precious? No, it is not the allowance nor the budgetary amount of the allowance itself; rather, Christmas gifts are appropriate because they are an expression of your love and appreciation.

No amount for whom you are affairs the Christmas allowance for, your Christmas present will angle out from the blow of the presents if you chase these simple rules:

* Use your imagination and your creativity to create a unique gift for someone you love dearly.

* The allowance should reflect how abundant anticipation and affliction you have devoted to select it.

* Keep the personal preferences of the person in mind while choosing your Christmas gift.

* Add some claimed touches to about-face a simple allowance into a different piece. For example, buy an acceptable affection bolt and beautify it yourself, or similarly, accomplish an amazing pouch. The accomplishment that you booty to actualize these simple yet allusive altar speaks volumes of how abundant your affliction for your ancestors and friends, appropriately makes the presents priceless in the eyes of your loved ones. For added account on artistic Christmas allowance making, there are a lot of Christmas ability accounts on the internet.

* Gifts that have been personalized especially for the recipient hold special meaning. For example, present your wife a baby gold chaplet with her name inscribed on it. Or abruptly, your boyish adolescent with an alien vacation. Buy admirable Christmas cards for your friends, but address abbreviate balladry of acceptable wishes centrally on the cards to make your acquaintance feel appropriate and pampered.

As you can see there are so abounding means that your Christmas gifts can make your friends and family feel so special; you alone accept to be little artistic and put a little accomplishment into the Christmas gifts to convey your message of love and well-wishes.

SIX TOP TIPS TO MAKE GOOGLE LOVE YOUR SITE

Consider the following tips in order for you to make Google fall in love with your site:-

1.     Love yourself.

First and foremost, love yourself and love Google as you love yourself; as the cliché goes, ‘You cannot give what you have not!’ So do love yourself as you’ll be on your way to item two.

2.     Love Google.

Google does work that it helps people find what they are searching for. So, take note of this and comply with it. Tricks or other similar acts will not hold water for you in Google. You have to come up with a unique content that people will honestly find useful and beneficial to them. So, the bottom line issue here is to love Google and work with it harmoniously.

3.     Make the cap fit for Google.

You should come up with a decent website having decent content. All pages should have proper headings and descriptions as well as matching content. With decent content; it should be useful, unique and not containing bombastic words; so to speak. You should bear in mind that there are millions of people waiting to read, understand and take necessary action whenever need be; so making your post hard will not be part of it.

4.     Let Google see you.

This you should achieve by building content on your site. You should also get decent links going to your site for Google to take note of you and start paying attention.

5.     Be there when Google calls.

Have a decent ISP with 99% uptime or even better. Make sure you maintain web presence and Google will respond to any positive change on your site; and remember, the reverse will also count.

6.     Keep improving all the time.

The Last but not the least success tip is to keep improving all the time. Add more value to the html or php you wrote a year or so ago. Improve your content, structure and navigation of your site. Keeping at it with continous improvement is the most important of all here.

Best of luck and see you again; same place next time!

Bye! Bye! And let there be light!