Love is euphoric. Love is enchanting. Love is
heavenly. Love is captivating. And Love is something no one can describe. Love
has to be felt, it cannot be explained. One cannot fall in love by planning;
one just falls in love without realizing. That is love. And love also takes
intelligence away like nothing can. In love, the most intelligent person may
act foolishly, because love overwhelms.
What if you fall in romantic love? It is the
beginning of your love and you have no thoughts in your mind except those of
your darling. You are dreaming of making a home with her/him and living happily
ever after. You are planning, discussing and dreaming. You are as much away from
the reality of life as much as day is away from night. You get married. Your
friends gather. Your family gathers. There is celebration. The couple looks
great. They look to be in so much love with each other. You feel like the
luckiest person on the earth. And then you announce divorce after a year. Why?
You never allowed your intelligence any role
in your decision to marry. You never thought of what marriage means. You never
faced the reality of staying together. If she is north, you are south, and if
he loves literature, you love outdoors. Both of you knew about the differences,
but both of you ignored them. You never gave attention to them. And some one
pointed out the differences and asks you to rethink; he/she was out of your
list of friends. But the final outcome was shattering. No divorce ever gives
peace and fulfillment.
Please fall in love. Please experience the
high of love, real passionate love. And please ask your intelligence few
questions before deciding to spend life together. Are we suitable for each
other? Are our habits similar? Will we give comfort to each other? Are our
expectations real and will they get fulfilled? Are we fit to marry each other?
Will our love last? Let intelligence play a role along with your love and then
decide. You will never have to announce divorce. You will live happily together
forever, because you have made a conscious decision after finding out
everything.
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